Tuesday, December 22, 2015

The Legend of Bloody Mary, Swamp Witch.


The nights are cooling, its fall in Hogtown, 1859. It’s time for harvest and a time for slaughter.

Mary Worth, is a witch
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She lives in a swamp, southeast of the settlement, by herself. Mary has a skeletal appearance, her hands and face are covered in warts and cist from embedded thorns that infected and never removed. Her fingers have long yellowed nails with embedded filth. Her face is wrinkled, with sunken eyes covered with a dull haze with black circles surrounding her eyes. Mary’s hair is long, black matted but mostly gray. She walks with a stoop and a mystic stick for support. She wears tattered, black clothing with a hood to cover her face.

Mary Worth, is a witch.

She makes a monthly trip to the general store, with a sled, of sort, strapped across her shoulders. When she walks through the swamp and forest, the dragging sound of the sled and the thump of the mystic stick echoes throughout.
Mary was met on a trail, the year prior, by a local farmer who had heard the tales of Mary. He stood in her way and looked down upon her. What do we have here; the dreaded witch from the swamp? Look at you, you are nothing more than a tattered vagabond, go back to your swamp, quit scaring my children. I do not fear you! Mary raised her mystic stick towards the farmer and hissed at him through her yellow and green teeth. A cold chill ran down the back of the farmer and the smell of earth surrounded him, as Mary hissed at him once again. The farmer stepped aside and let her pass. Later that year, his wife and children caught the fever and died. He became weak in the heart and spent the last months of his life begging, bedridden in filth. There are far worse things in life, than death.
Mary would come to town for nothing more than salt and occasionally some black cloth. She would lay her coins on the counter, never speaking a word. The merchant would set her change on the counter in front of Mary and wait till she walked out of the store before brushing the coins into a bucket of lamp oil, because he was afraid to touch them.

Mary Worth is a witch.

The next morning, the town was stirred up with fear; a young girl was missing. They searched the town and the woods surrounding the settlement, she was nowhere to be found. A week later, another girl was missing and the townspeople searched every house and building, the woods and all the way to the swamp; she was nowhere to be found. The following night, another girl became missing. It’s the witch, she’s taking the girls, the parents cried out; she’s taking our girls! Several men gathered together and made their way into the swamp to search for Mary. It took most of the day for the men to find Mary’s homestead, fighting the muck and the vines and the insects.  When they approached her shack, a dark figure was standing in back, stirring a cauldron over an open fire. The merchant stepped forward and called out to Mary. Mary, we have young girls missing; do you know where they are? Mary never looked up or acknowledged him, she just kept stirring the cauldron. You old witch; where are the girls? She turned sharply and starred at the merchant, but something was different. Her hair was straight and the gray was gone. Her eyes had a sparkle from where there was only a dull haze before and the black circles and wrinkles were gone. The moles and cist were smaller and she actually had a color to her skin. She raised her mystic stick and held it out in front of her towards the merchant; Be Gone! He could feel the pressure of her mystic stick on his chest and the smell of earth surrounded him. Be Gone, she scolded one more time, this time almost knocking the merchant off his feet. The other men started stepping backwards then turned and run. The merchant struggled through the vines and muck trying to catch up with the other men as they ran away from Mary’s homestead.
It was past dark when the men made it back to the settlement, exhausted, scratched and filthy with the memory of Mary Worth, embedded into their conscious. The merchant walked to the pump, and drew a pail of water to clean up before entering his home. The oil lamp gave an orange hue to the room as he opened the door and met his wife, waiting for him at the dining table. He explained the happenings of the day and made his way upstairs to their bed before an uneasy night of sleep.
The merchant was awaken at 12:08 by his wife; Sarah is gone, Sarah is gone; she screamed! The merchant, in a sleeping stupor, grabbed his gun from the wall, loaded two silver bullets into the chamber and headed down the stairs. He grabbed a lantern, raised the globe and lit the wick and headed out into the darkness screaming Sarah’s name. “Sarah”, “Sarah”, “Sarah”! Several neighbor, hearing the commotion, come out in their night shirts and called for Sarah. Other men gathered with lanterns and head off in different directions, in search of Sarah, calling out her name. The merchant saw a small white figure a hundred yards in front of him, it was Sarah and she was walking towards a bright light. The merchant screamed out Sarah’s name but she kept walking. As he ran closer, he saw it was Mary Worth, holding her mystic stick up, glowing in light he had never seen before. He dropped the lamp, pulled the hammer back on his gun, aimed and shot Mary in the thigh. The glowing stick fell to the ground and went dark, as did Sarah. The merchant clutched his daughter as several men ran past them to where Mary Worth lay. She had changed, the woman on the ground was a younger Mary Worth, but it was Mary. Several men tackled her, bound her wrist and ankles with hemp, drug her into a clearing beneath a grand oak. The cast a rope over a limb and hoisted Mary, by her hands, over twenty feet in the air. More townspeople gathered around to witness the witch hissing and screaming as she dangled from the branch. Several men gathered lanterns and headed back into the swamp to Mary’s shack to find the missing girls. When they arrived at the shack, coals glowed beneath the cauldron and the shack was aglow from burning candles. The door was open and what they found sickened them. One of the men found his daughter’s corpse hanging above Mary’s alter. A blood covered challis sat upon an altar, dried blood coating all parts of the challis and alter. Dried blood streams running down the sides of the altar to the skeletal remains of a child. Alongside the altar was a box of salt and when they brushed the surface, the face of the other missing girl was exposed. The men gathered the remains of the children and wrapped them in the black cloth from Mary’s bed. The poured lamp oil on the walls of the shack and lit it as they walked into the darkness. The flames rose quickly and roared above the trees as the men entered the swamp and back to Hogtown.
It would be first light before the men returned to the settlement with the remains. The townspeople cast judgement and began gathering liter and wood to pile beneath the hissing witch. At sundown, the townspeople gathered around the woodpile as judgement was passed and the pile lit. Mary Worth screamed and called out; you will all be damned! Your children will call upon me. The flames rose as Mary screamed as the flames touched her feet and her clothing started to smoke, the merchant cut the rope, casting her into the flames. The following day, they gathered the ashes, took them to the edge of the swamp and scattered them into the dark water.
Today, as you walk along Lake Alice at sundown, step off the sidewalk onto the dirt path that runs along the east side. Look across the lake, close your eyes and call out; Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary. You’ll hear the sound of her sled rails and the thumping of her mystic stick and the smell of earth with surround you.

Mary Worth is a witch.

Young girls will gather in slumber, sit cross legged on the floor with a lighted candle, a bowl of salt and a mirror, hold hands and call out; Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary. Her image will appear in the mirror.

Mary Worth is a witch.

Only the brave will venture into a dark room, alone, with a candle and bowl of salt held out in front of them, stare into a mirror and call; Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary. As her image appears, your soul will be cast into the mirror to spend eternity with Bloody Mary.


Mary Worth is a witch. 


If you want to read the rest of the story, the book is available here.

Monday, December 21, 2015

Networking the Right Way for Business and Job prospecting

For many years, networking “experts” have proclaimed; you have to be on social media to be successful in business or for your next job search. Many small businesses and job seekers have followed their advice and constantly updated on all of their social networking sites, at the recommended times during the day, as recommended by the “experts”; what has happened?
 Many boast about the large numbers of followers they have on Twitter, Facebook, Linkedin and other social networking sites; but has any of that social networking turned into profit for the business or a solid job prospect? Small businesses and job seekers often rely on software to assist them with social networking, to stay in constant contact with their database. It’s often a daily deluge of drip campaigns, blogs and dry emails reminding everyone, who is in their social network, how important they are to their business or why they should be hired. The big surprise comes when one of your followers buys a product or service from a competitor or you just got news of someone on your social network, who is less qualified than you, was hired for a position you had sent a resume to and now you can’t figure out why they didn’t contact you. You “liked” what they posted on their social networks, you made comments on their sites and yet they went with your competitor or hired someone less qualified than you; why?
 You immediately look at the competitor’s web site and social presence to determine why your contact went with them. You convince yourself, your multiple websites are more professional than theirs and your pricing is far superior to your competitor or you were more qualified for the position; so why did your follower go to them?
 For many years, many of us have gotten away from the personal aspect of business. It all started with; sly-dialing to leave a voice message, a fax, an email or a text, hoping you wouldn’t have to actually talk to a real person. We walk through our community and pass by people, never saying a word to any of them and many of you wouldn’t recognize many of your social media followers, if you passed them in the isles while grocery shopping. This impersonal lifestyle, many of us lead, is the result of our social networking failure. 
 The newest rave, spanning across nations, is the old adage of personal networking. I have attended many of these events and chuckle to myself as I watch many people stumble over themselves trying to network, which more than often turns into a social hour of people talking with people they already know or are in the same line of business. 
Networking the Right Way starts out with your appearance, a message and a goal. It’s all about developing relationships, gaining the confidence of people within your community and spanning out from there. Learning the skill of networking takes time and effort, you will gain lasting results and build confidence in yourself and develop a strong business reputation. Here is some advice I offer to those in business or those seeking employment; 

               10 Tips for Successful Business Networking 

1. Networking is about being genuine. 
2. What are your goals with participating in a network meeting? 
3. Visit as many Networking Groups in your area. 
4. Volunteer or hold leadership positions in your community. 
5. Ask open-ended questions when networking. 
6. Become known as a powerful resource. 
7. Have a clear statement of what you do, why you do it, for whom and why you love what you do. 
8. Be able to articulate what you are looking for and how others may assist you. 
9. Follow up quickly on each referral and business card you receive. 
10. Call those you meet, who may benefit from your services, and follow through on collaborating with those you can assist.

 10 Networking Tips using business cards/business positions

 1. Never leave home without your business cards.
 2. Have a Unique Sales Proposition on your business card. 
3. Treat the business cards with respect when you receive them. 
4. When handing out business cards, hand out two. 
5. Keep your business cards simple, don’t boast yourself on your card. 
6. Make notes on the business cards you receive. 
7. Be part of the networking committee, volunteer to be a greeter. 8. Follow up face to face after a networking event, personally. 
9. Get published, write letters or business notices in the newspaper. 10. Branding yourself. 

      Common Questions/Comments to make while networking

1. Tell about you’re your business?
2. What’s the most unique aspects of your business? 
3. What type of client is least profitable? 
4. What’s your biggest business challenge right now? 
5. What is the best thing that happened to your business this year? 6. What is your biggest wish for next year? 
7. Do you have employees? What is the most difficult thing you have to deal with? 
8. What’s your biggest personal accomplishment so far? 
9. What’s your biggest personal accomplishment in your career? 10. If I were to refer a client to you; what would be your ideal client? 
11. When is the most convenient time to stop by your business so you can tell me more about what you do? 
12. What can you tell me about yourself?

         Common Mistakes to Avoid when Networking

 1. Speak without enthusiasm. Lack of voice inflection when introducing yourself and emphasizing your credentials. 
2. Failure to express opinions or interest. 
3. Stuck in a routine and act bored. 
4. Looking around hoping other people will rescue you. 
5. Narrow focus of personal interaction. 
6. While speaking to people, looking around to see someone else. 
7. Crowd the food table or bar, (overeat and getting drunk). 
8. Politics, religion, off color jokes and gawking. 
 9. Negative comments, (boss, elected officials, your business) 
10. Bragging about your accomplishments or how great you are. 11. Hanging with the same people the entire event. 
12. Ignoring people who are trying to engage with you. 
13. Trying to engage in conversation while others are deeply engaged in conversation. 
14. Don’t be a cling-on.

Monday, December 7, 2015

Welcome to the New Normal

This time of year is always special for me and it has nothing to do with the holidays. Twenty-five years ago, my unit was preparing to go to war. It had been fifteen years since our military had its last engagement in Vietnam. We had had small scale conflicts; Grenada and the communist factions of Cuba and the Soviet Union, Panama and the ouster of Manual Noriega just prior to Operation Desert Storm and the many years of watching the borders of Korea and Europe during the Cold War. Now a new war is upon us, terrorism. We have watched it from afar, it is something that happens over there and we have long been isolated from terrorism. As long as I can remember, there has always been terrorist acts being reported, written about and many of the acts were brought upon by; left versus right, have-nots versus the haves and religion against religion. The fights have always been over there, as we watch from afar and thought; how terrible it must be to live with terrorism. The troubles in Ireland, the loss of life as we watched from afar, terrorism between two factions, extremism and now the start of an old phenomenon has raised its ugly head in our country; terrorism. It’s no longer over there, it’s here and will be in our lives from here on. We can wage battles, over there, and talk of how we are going to defeat those who inspire terrorism, but it’s here, now. The real question is; how do we defeat terrorism? The answer is; you don’t. Is there peace in Ireland? Can there ever be peace in the Middle East? We can answer that with our own experience within our country, our racial divide. We can all claim ourselves as being optimist and looking forward to the brighter future but, I proclaim, being the ultimate pessimist, we cannot have peace as long as we have poverty, religion, different races and language. There is no sense in hiding in your home to escape terrorism, it’s here, live your life, be vigilant and know; terrorism can happen to you. Welcome to the new normal.